Mary Benedict Cooper Nelson

Mary Benedict Cooper Nelson, a devoted music educator, loyal friend, beloved mother, and avid Guardians and Cavaliers fan, passed away peacefully, holding her best friend’s hand. Born in St. Louis, Missouri, Mary spent her life dazzling others with her flute performances, supporting fellow musicians, and inspiring future generations to find joy in music — she changed many people’s lives. She loved classical music and was an enthusiastic supporter of contemporary composers.

In Oberlin, Ohio, Mary found a vibrant community of friends who shared her love of music, travel and laughter. Over decades, this close-knit group cared for each other like family, creating a lifetime of memories that enriched Mary’s life beyond measure. She found her spiritual home at the First Church in Oberlin.

Mary was a loving mother to her three daughters, Sarah, Alyce, and Johanna, and three grandchildren, Andrew, Christopher, and Viviana. They were her greatest pride. She is survived by her sister, Margaret, with whom she shared a close and enduring relationship. She was preceded in death by her sister Katharine Ann, her brother Stancil Jr., her mother Colma, father Stancil, and stepfather Ken.

Mary’s spirit, humor, and warmth will be missed by all who knew her.

A memorial service will be held at First Church in Oberlin at 1 p.m. on October 31, 2024.

In lieu of flowers, please consider donating to the Northern Ohio Youth Orchestra, Oberlin Choristers, Oberlin Community Music School, or the Oberlin Heritage Center.

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